How To Determine if an Intimate Wedding is Right for You
Weddings are a celebration of love, a day filled with cherished moments and lasting memories. While some couples dream of grand celebrations with hundreds of guests, others find themselves drawn to the charm and intimacy of a smaller gathering. These so-called micro weddings, or minimonies, have been increasingly popular since COVID19. As couples navigated the challenges of health concerns and restrictions, many opted for more intimate ceremonies and celebrations that prioritized authenticity and connection. If you’re considering an intimate wedding, you’re likely wondering if it’s the right fit for you and your partner. Here are some factors that will help you determine if a small, intimate wedding is for you - from a wedding planner!
Evaluating Your Guest List
Many brides say after their wedding day that they can’t even remember who was there! Among the benefits of an intimate wedding is the opportunity to spend quality time with each of your guests, to engage more deeply and create lasting, impactful memories. There is, of course, the challenge of who to invite and who to leave off the list. Often, asking questions can help narrow down the invitees, such as: Are there people you simply feel obligated to invite? Who do you have truly meaningful relationships with that you want to celebrate? A shorter guest list can be cause for discomfort but remember - small weddings make for big memories!
Budget
A smaller guest list means smaller expenses! Larger weddings incur costs that scale with the number of attendees due to venue size, food, and beverage. Catering and bar services typically charge per person, so the higher the head count, the higher the cost!
Creating an Elevated Experience
Smaller weddings offer opportunities for luxury and creativity that larger ones may not, allowing you to create a day that truly reflects who you are as a couple. With less of your budget allocated to a high head count, there is more available to spend on high quality food and drink, florals and your photographer. There is also more space to incorporate something truly unique, like a several course meal paired with wine tasting!
Deciding whether an intimate wedding is right for you ultimately comes down to your personal values and vision for your day. As you contemplate this decision, consider what matters most to you and your partner. Whether you choose an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, the most important aspect is celebrating your love in a way that feels authentic to you!